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🎯 6 Key Steps to Achieving Your Goals

Posted on September 2, 2025September 9, 2025 by Harold Gittens
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It’s almost September, and if you’re like most people, you probably set goals in January—or maybe just last week—that you were excited to achieve. But here’s the big question: how’s it going so far?

Whether you’re on track, feeling stuck, or just getting started, the truth is this: it’s never too late to reset and realign. The important thing is not just setting goals, but setting them in a way that gives you the best possible chance of success.

Here are 6 powerful steps to help you write goals that work—and more importantly, achieve them.


Step 1: State Your Goal Positively

Your brain doesn’t process negatives well. If you say, “I don’t want to be late anymore,” guess what your brain hears? Late.

Instead, flip the script:

  • ❌ I want to lose 5 kg.
  • ✅ I want to be 65 kg by June.

Focus only on what you want to move toward, not what you’re trying to avoid.

Ask yourself:

  • What do I hope to change?
  • What outcome do I really want?

Step 2: Put Your Goal in Context

A goal has to make sense for you—your life, your situation, your values.

Ask yourself:

  • Where will this goal take me?
  • In what areas of my life will this goal matter most?
  • By when do I want it?

When a goal is grounded in your reality, it’s more likely to stick.


Step 3: Express Your Goal in Specific, Sensory Terms

What will you see, hear, and feel when you achieve your goal? Visualization isn’t daydreaming—it’s programming your brain to recognize success before it arrives.

Close your eyes and imagine:

  • What will I see when this goal becomes reality?
  • What sounds and feelings will confirm I’ve achieved it?

Your brain will start steering you in that direction.


Step 4: Choose a Goal You Can Fulfil Yourself

Your goal must depend on you, not other people. You can’t control traffic, the economy, or someone else’s choices—but you can control your own effort and mindset.

Ask:

  • Does this goal depend on me or someone else?
  • How much control do I really have?
  • What’s one thing I can take full responsibility for today?

Step 5: Evaluate Honestly the Effects of Achieving Your Goal

Sometimes success comes with trade-offs. A promotion may mean less family time. Breaking a habit might shake up your social circle.

Ask:

  • What will I gain—and what might I lose?
  • How will my life really change once I achieve this?
  • Am I prepared for those changes?

The more honest you are, the smoother the journey will be.


Step 6: Choose a Worthwhile Goal

Your goal should feel aligned with your values and purpose. Otherwise, even if you achieve it, it may feel empty.

Ask:

  • Is this worth the effort it will take?
  • Does this reflect who I want to be?
  • How will this matter in the bigger picture of my life?

When your goals connect to your identity, they become fuel for growth.


✈️ Final Word: Stay on Course

Think of yourself like a pilot. Did you know airplanes are off course more than 70% of the time? Yet they still arrive safely, because the pilot keeps making small adjustments.

Your goals work the same way. Don’t give up if you hit storms or detours—adjust, reset, and keep moving forward.

The most successful people aren’t the ones who never face obstacles. They’re the ones who stay clear on their goals and keep adjusting until they arrive.

So, here’s your reminder:
👉 Stay on course.
👉 Keep adjusting.
👉 Know what you want, and go for it.

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